TheOnlyOne

I put gel in my hair daily. I like to slick it back, but I make sure to be as conservative as possible with it.

No bunny did not bring her bf. He isn't one to go out on the weekends. I'm sure that if I hadn't shown up at all that night that Bunny would still have gone. Peach is not being strung along. We are 2 single people enjoying one anothers company. Yes I do like Peach but I know for a fact she is not looking for a serious realtionship with anyone at the moment. Bunny came up to me and asked how the past week had been for me. I replied by telling her "it was OK" then she changed the subject to the holidays. We ended up talking about christmas shopping. I told her I always had a hard time getting the perfect girt for everyone on my list. She asked me what i was getting her for christmas. I jokingly said "A stocking full of coal. she hit me on the shoulder. That was pretty much it. The rest of the time Bunny was there she seemed to stay in the other side of the house with a few friends from work. I don't think the trust between me and Bunny changed. I hope it didn't I know I brought a date and didn't tell her ahead of time but should I have to?

Well here is an update on things went at the party. I ended up bringing a date I'll call her "Peach" and I will call the girl I'm attracted to "Bunny" so every knows who i'm referring to. So I set foot in the front door with Peach I could see Bunny glance over at me and she had a Surprised look on her face. I did chat her shortly while Peach was having a conversation with one of my other friends. through out the rest of the night Bunny kept her distance. Later on that night Peach and I went out for a walk that was at most 15 minutes when I get back I find out that Bunny had already left. It was still somewhat early for the weekend and it was not like bunny to be one of the frist to leave. Did she get jealous that I brought a date? or could it be she just felt awkward and decided to excuse herself from the festivities?

I understand what your saying but I don't want to be the one that cuase that realtionship to fail. I would probably talk with her and indirectly ask how things with her new guy are going. as for getting the friendzone talk I not worried about that but what valenski said about losing her friendship I'm not sure I could handle that. I find this to be a much safer way. however I not very good at flirting I can tell when someone is flirting with me but I suck at it I have no intention of letting anyone find out about my feelings for her. when she is at work she acts very professional. she has told me a good amount of information in confidence, of course lots of women tell their friends secrets if they trust them. I'm plan taking slow and to have as much as I can thought out before I start talking to her about how I feel. there is a party tonight that she will be attending. I was thinking about bringing a date to see how she reacts to me around another female. Would this be a bad idea?

Well this is something that been bothering me the past couple months. I have a good friend that I have known for 2 years. I met through someone in my old clique. She was dating him at the time. Back then I didn't see her that much then maybe once or twice a week. I really enjoyed the times when I was around her though. We had a lot in common and still do be it movies, music or video games and we share the same group of friends. Our realtionship had always been stricly friends to me she was just one of the guys. Fast forward a year later. The "friend" she was dating showed his true colors. She left him and everyone in the group stuck by her side. So he was out the picture compeletly. My friends and I were trying to set her up with another friend he was a real good guy and she had known him alittle over a year. They hooked up and dated a few times but nothing serious came of it so for the next 6 months she decided to say single. Over this past summer she finally went out on a date about 3 times a month co workers guys from school. Around this time I realized I was attracted to her. I no longer saw her as just one of the guys. Now back in september I started notice she was acting different around me. I would catch her staring at me and when she saw me she looked away quickly. She asks my opinion for things going on in her personal life. She has been a lot more physical with me in the past 2 months. she will sit right next to me even when there are plenty of other places to sit. However all this behavior confuses me as she has been going out with a co-worker for a month. Maybe she is more comfortable around me now or Is she trying to make me jealous? I pretty sure she doesn't know I'm attracted to her though. I haven't told anyone or done anything to show it. can anyone help me out here?