Hi - I just wanted some opinions on my current issue with my boyfriend and if you feel I am overacting or if I have something to worry about.
My b/f is someone who has many female friends, this situation I have come to terms with, although it did take a while. He finds it easier making female friends than male friends, and I have met a few of these girls and found them really nice and friendly etc.
Lately he has been talking a lot about this girl at work, and mentioned how attractive she is and how he met her sister and she wasn't as attractive as her etc etc, there always seems to be a story about this one girl. One part of me just thinks that if there was anything else he wouldn't be so blatant in my face, but the other part is making me feel insecure. He is 42 and she is early 20's, I am wondering if he is having a middle age crisis crush on her. We have been together for over a year, and overall very happy. He is constantly telling me how attractive I am, and how he loves me. So I am really confused.
This week too - he went out to an event with 2 female friends I have not heard about before, they only had limited tickets and so I didn't go. This has made me feel a bit rejected by him too. I have been a bit distant with him this week, he has text me apologising for going on about his great night when he knows I have had a rubbish week at work etc, and saying he will make up for it at the weekend.
Can I have your honest opinions pls.
