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Thanks Jason... Actually I just recently signed up for Lavalife and have been looking around on there..I figured that it was worth a shot and my mom met her boyfriend and probably future husband off there! I know its a little low...but there is a lot of averge normal people like myself that go on there..this is the 21st century right? lol Anyways, the only thing thats standing in the way right now is my pride, I know that it shouldn't be an issue cause I'm the one that broke up with him. ...but thats just it...if I'm the one that broke up with him then maybe he'll wonder what the heck I'm doing calling him. I guess I cant predict anything, I'll just have to see what happens..................

Thanks for your thoughts Elie, Who knows...maybe were not ready to discuss things yet anyways. However, he did send me an email a couple weeks ago asking how I was doing and when he seen my friend he asked her too..I dunno what to think of this. I know for a fact though that he goes out and parties every weekend, which I guess in most cases is normal considering we were together for so long. I should probably be doing the same myself..but I'm not really into the whole bar scene anymore and I find it hard to meet a guy in a bar unless I'm drunk anyways....... I'm always hoping that he'll call me or we'll run into eachother somehow....

To the above member: Thanks for taking the time to read this and sharing your thoughts...I understand that I really have nothing to lose but what if the only reason why I feel this way is because I'm lonely...I know that this may sound strange but I'm not even completely sure how I feel. What if we did get back together (if he took me back that is) and then a couple months down the road, I started to feel the same way again....it would be a disaster!

Well honey... I'm quite surprised, I used to work at the Stag Shop and I never checked anyones ID...nor have I ever been in an Adult store and they have asked me for ID, however if you're not willing to try out of fear of possible embarrassment (getting caught...I really dont think this will happen though) I would definitely recommend a hand massager...they're cheap and very available and trust me, they get the job done! Good luck

Please help!! (sorry I know its lengthy, but its a complicated situation) I broke up with my ex about two months ago, we were going out for over 4 yrs. Everything was ok up until the last six months...I dont know why it happened but I started to question my feelings for him; I wasn't sure if I loved him anymore and I didn't understand why (and I still dont for that matter.) He treated me absolutely amazing and would have done anything for me..it got to the point where he would want to kiss me and I didn't even feel like kissing him back. At this point I decided it just wasn't fair to be with him and so I told him that I thought we should break up. Suprisingly, he told me that he had been feeling really frustrated and stressed out and he thought it was a good idea (i'm sure the sex had a lot to do with this). When I told my friends that he had felt the same way, they said that he probably just said it cause he was angry that I was breaking up with him...I still don't know if this is true. At first it was really easy but then as time progressed I began to doubt myself and question my motives. I began to think about all the good times that we shared together and how we had been through so much together. I'm starting to miss him a lot and there isn't a day that passes that I don't think about him. I don't understand why this is happening to me..maybe I just need to get out there and meet new people but I honestly can't imagine myself being with anyone else. I feel like if we got back together maybe things would be different and I would begin to feel like how I felt in the beginning, maybe all we needed was a break. I don't sure if I should try to talk to him about this because I have no idea how he feels. I just don't want to go through the rest of my life wondering if I made a huge mistake..... Any advice out there? Thanks](*,) ](*,)