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Tonight I sent him the second long email telling him how I feel. It is like he reads it but does not get the message. The thing that stinks is that we have so much in common. More than with any other man I have ever met! Sometimes I just want to quit until he can come out here but then I would probably be just as bad off if I did that. Any advice on how to get through his "man" head?

I went out there in August and he did take a 18-20 hour bus ride one way to come here. He says he does not want to set a "date" for coming here to live as he does not want to disappoint me. From a guys perspective, which I am trying to understand, why can't he send a card or something? I sent him several. Of course I know that this stuff is not as important to men as it is to women but ugh!

I need some advice in my LDR. I met my bf online thru school. He cannot move to be with until he has his car fixed when he gets his income tax return early next year. We talk on the phone every day-I sent him the sim card for his cell phone so we could talk for free. My problem is he never sends me anything-or emails or texts me. I have read that this is crucial to the LDR-I already knew that but reading it made me feel like I wasn't just being weird or something! I told him I needed this but still nothing He loves me and I love him. But I need something to keep me going-I cry alot-I need something to take the place of physical contact. I told him what I needed but how do I make him understand that I need really need this and that it is important?