MessedUpInHead

Wow, good luck to you!

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Why would BOTH of the neighbors be at your house at times if the neighbors husband knew something was going on???

wow, kinda weird, but be happy with what you have accomplished & set your own goals. if you have that stuff in future, fine, if not as long as you're happy & you realize things in life isn't always about materialistic things.

If that doesn't help in 3 months period also in a very calm way say - I'd appreciate you not calling me again. And no explanations if he asks why. Just answer him with I will be forced to call the police if you call again. Bye. And hung up.

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i agree with this person.

My heart tells me he would never hurt me. We have such an intense bond.. we have been together for five years, since we were both 15.

 

It just seems that these days it is becoming more natural to seek comfort in sex when things are becoming tough in relationships.

 

I know i worry too much all the time.

 

I just am scared i guess, about the whole lifetime thing.

if you are scared why have you waited 5 years...obviously you love him & he loves you.

are you having urges or thoughts on your part & thinking he's having the same?

IF SHE CAN CHEAT THAT EASILY, SHE'LL DO IT AGAIN!!!

She only 19, MATURITY hasn't hit her yet about future and all that...you'll be back her in less than 6 months crying again that you found out she did it again!

save up for a paternity test or email those talk shows maybe they'll do it for free if you volunteer to go on their show...

why weren't you on the pill? did he know you weren't on the pill?

TALK TO HER...don't yell or argue...if she startes yelling & can't TALK normailly then treat her like a w.hore and kick her to the curb...maybe then she'll realize she's in lala land or realize she's happier without you.

either way you'll get better soon since right now i'm sure its killing you knowing all this stuff is happening in the house where you also live.

please do your girlfriend a favor and let her know whats going on so she can move on as well...

+1

p.s. you're g/f is already cheating on you as well! you just don't know it...

Don't beat yourself up for sleeping with him. That said, he's under no obligation to call you.

 

I had the best date ever last month and... no call. It happens, for whatever reason. Just enjoy the time you had together and don't stress too much.

another negative part...maybe he thought the sex wasn't as good or no chemistry on his end.

either way, ignore him & go fishing again.

no matter how good a date is, a guy will always remember if he slept with you within the first couple dates. men are stupid like that since they realized they got what they needed with no challenge. next time even though it feels awesome never sleep on the 1st or 2nd date, seriously.