Hi, I'm just trying to work out my feelings here and maybe get some helpful feedback.
I recently met this girl and because of her, I am in turmoil and pain right now and I'm trying to understand it better. We have only been dating for a few weeks. I am in my late 20's but inexperienced in long term relationships. We are very different - she comes from a rich family and is physically very attractive. I've never been materialistic and I'm by no means rich and I'm not exactly a male model
I have a feeling that if I was to pursue this relationship, it would take alot of work from both our sides. We will both have to make many changes and face challenges that will come from how different we are. Also, I have goals to travel, and the next 6 months are crucial for me to realise these goals (I have to get my working visa before I turn 30), and I've noticed that in order to make 'us' work I will probably have to put in alot of my recources, time and energy.
We are so different, and I have very indivudualistic goals in the near future, I'm not sure if it's worth it. However my heart tells me that I like her and I want to make it work...
Has anyone been in this situation? Any advice on how to proceed?
Thanks
Asimov