Lopez76

Would just letting the cat out of the bag be a good thing? What does that do? What if it does not change anything?

I definitely want to stay out of the office stuff. The person that leaked it definitely was wrong but it does not change the situation. What if my friend brings home a STD? We are not talking about just morals here. I really don't want to know what I know but how do I act normally in front of this guy?

I can't confront him because of the way I found out about it. We work for the same company and our e-mails are monitored, he must have forgotten about that. Anyway, the contents of his e-mails were leaked to me because of our friendship. The leak is also against company policy which puts me between a rock and a hard place.

I just found out that my best friend is cheating on his wife. He just got married within the last two months and I was his best man. It turns out this has been going on for six months and has not stopped. My friend definitely has some issues with lying but he thinks he gets away with it. Unfortunately I am in a situation where I cannot confront him even though I really want to kick the snot out of him! For some reason I remember telling him before the wedding that I would come after him if he did anything to hurt her. I really was not kidding. I really don't want to lose him as a friend, but perhaps that's already happened as he has really lost my respect. I really feel awful about this whole thing. She is a very nice girl from a loving family. I am a very honest and truthful person and I think she needs to know about this. What should I do? Thanks