den2121

You guys are great! It makes me feel better..thanks!

Thanks for your advise its exactly what my best friends told me.. but it's hard. he said hell try yo be nicer and stuff but still he doenst know why he cant stop messign around..i mean its not like we have sex..we do some stuff yes but thats not it all the time...we chat everyday and stuff but i know that im still#2 and it kidna botehrs me but at the same time i dont know what i want from him maybe i just want to be with someone and havent found anyways nice yet. I wish i did so then i could get "rid" of him because although im doing this i wouldnt cheat on my bf. You asked me if we had sex it would be better or worse honestly idk i think about it but i betetr do not take the risk...what u think?

Ok im messing around with this guy who used to live downstairs (he had to moved out recently, coulnt find a roomie) he used to live with his gf but she found a job in a different state so tehy dont see each other that often anymore. he strted hitting on me since feb..and now even though he moved out we still mess around we see each other about twice a week and hes not all that nice but sometiems we do go to clubs and hang out with some of his friends and always end up making out...we havent had sex (pennetration)cause im a virgin but i give him bj and stuff i stayed overnight and he was an when he woke up...he says hes an ebcause hes cheating on his gf he says it to me but he keeps doing it and i am stupid because i cant stop it. she coming just for a weeknd to visit him and obviously i get screw off. i dont know what he wants..i asked him and he says he doenst know etc, i tried to tell him why he keeps telling me he has a gf and doesnt act liek he has one but he says he cant asnwer that because he deont know, he keeps talking to me and asking me to come over im confused too but i know its wrong i shouldb have more respect for my self we are in our early twenties. he said once too that if he ddint have a gf he would date me i know im pretty "hot" too btu i dotn know why i keep doing this to myself i almost had sex but i dont want to give it up to him because he has agf and he desnt act liek a bf more like a friend with benefits and he certainly hasnt done anything nice to me...i do have fun hanging out etc any thoughts??