Just looking for others' thoughts/advice...
-Married 11 years
-Hubby is step-dad to 20 year old son
-Hubby & step son never got along (better now that son is grown)
-Trust issues surrounding hubby not divulging info regarding ex-gf & their encounters (among other with-holding of info)
-Communication issues with hubby throughout marriage resulting in multiple trips to counselors to no avail
-Getting more attention from other men than hubby (this is on-going)
What to do? I'm feeling tired, numb, hopeless. I am a self-confident, successful woman. I don't even want to speak to my husband. Lots of resentment. Tried to explain this, but it's not sinking in. Tired of going to counselors to fix this situation.
Told hubby I wanted to leave & didn't want to be here. Told him I don't know if I love him. He asked if I wanted to try. I'm desperately tired of trying/doing all the emotional work. Told him I didn't know. He got angry & said, 'well then just go', but when I went to leave he said, 'You can stay.' Which just burns me.
Anyone else experience similar emotions? What should I do? Would time apart really help?
Thanks for your help!
