Beginning2findme

Hi All- I often do find myself checking out other women- and when i see a pretty girl i know i think to myself she has a great * * * * * or what a gorgeous face..and i always thought i was just doing it as a comparison to myself.....but then i would be with friends and they would find guys attractive on the street or the mall/bar etc .and i have to be honest- i barely noticed. also...your second question about lacking feelings- i'm not sure what you mean? do i find that i don't fall in love? I feel like i have never been in love even though i have been in long term relationships- i find that i enjoy the experience of being in a relationship rather then being with the person. Also ...i find that i have better conversations with guys (the majority of my friends are guys) i feel unless we are talking about emotional growth and such i get bored with most female conversations like.... shopping and make up ... even though i enjoy shopping and buying a new outfit etc..and i wear make up.... i'm bored with talking about it..LOL ..(maybe that's just a preference rather then an insight..LOL btw ...congrats about coming out...i hope that everyone was accepting.

Hello Everyone, I'm sure there are tons of posts like this one..but ...at the age of 34 I am questioning my sexuality. The reason i am posting is because i want some input from others who have determined that they are gay/lesbian. I have done minimal research and from what i've gathered its just something that you know but in my mind I feel the mere fact that I am even questioning my sexuality is a clue that it's something i need to look into. Hence how i am to find this website. I guess what i'm asking is what does "looking into your sexuality" look like? I have no idea where i would go to meet/talk to lesbians or other gays and even if i did...how would i know? I have looked on the internet to see if i can get some insight - maybe a story or something that will "click" and i can say - yeah i feel that way or no i dont ... This isn't soemthing new for me it's a question that has popped up in my mind from time to time- and i feel it's something worth addressing. How does one begin to explore their sexual orientation? If i was would i just know or would i be feeling as confused as I am now? I would appreciate any honest feedback..... thank you....