I need help!!!
I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over 1 and a half years now. We have good relationship and a healthy sex life. A couple of years ago my girlfriend went over to Canada for a year on exchange and met many friends, which she still is in contact with today. I have no problem with that, as i myself have lived abroad and have many friends which i keep in contact with. The other day she told me that her one friend from canada [an italian] was going to come to SA in 2 months to visit. Thats great i said, i'd like to meet him.
But here is where i'm uncertain..... She told me that she wants me to meet him, but for the two weeks that he's here, she doesn't want me to go out with them, as much as i would with any of her other friends...because she says that they have a very close relationship...not physical [she says] just "hugging and hanging in each other."
I was a bit off -put by this...not because of the fact that she has a very "contact" relationship with him [coz she is a very physical person], but becuase she doesn't want me there. I asked her why....and she replied that it was becuase she didn't want me to be jelous [i'm not really a jelous type..but i can be a little in some situations i suppose] and becuase he can't speak English..so they'll talk in French..which i can't speak [unfortunately]
I guess what i'm trying to say / ask is : She has told me that she did like him [back in the day] but didn't do anything because he was very superficial. and she says that she wants to be alone with him, because otherwise she'll not beable to "act herself" ????
now i don't think that she is anybody else with me, i think she will just feel like a translator ?!
Am i being over jelous / worried, or is there something that i should worry about? I know it sounds silly to ask you this, but any other opinion will be much appreciated!
Sorry for the long post.... hope i can trust you ppl to give me your honest views.
