Lonely2long

Thanks, I agree with pretty much all of your comments. I especially agree with not trying to do anything while she is in a relationship. I think its a pretty crappy thing to try and steal someone else's girlfriend, and realize that if she did this, whats to stop her from doing this to me. This is exactly why I wanted to tell her how I feel so when I do stop hanging out with her so much, she knows its not because I don't like her, but exactly oposite in fact. As far as seeing other girls, its more difficult than you're making it seem. I really like this girl and think its unfair to date a different girl as long as i have feelings for someone else. She is leaving in a few days for the rest of the summer, so I guess that will help to cool things off. Thanks again.

I have a very strong crush on a girl who has a boyfriend already. We met about 3 months ago and have had 2 classes together. We've been taking a chemistry class at my University for about a month and a half and have gotten pretty close while studying. My friends all tell me that they think its obvious that she likes me by the way she behaves, and I'd really like to believe this but I'm hesitant of course. Her boyfriend has already graduated and lives by himself in a different city, and they've only been dating for 2-3 months. A couple weeks ago we had a "movie night". We had some drinks and were up until like 5 in the morning. At one point during the night, we were both asleep on the same couch together with her resting on top of me. We are going to do it again on thursday, but I'm starting to get very frustrated with the whole situation. I feel like I'm slipping in the "nice guy/guy friend" role. Lately I've considered just telling her how I feel. But I don't want to scare her if she doesn't feel that way. What should I do???