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yes - you are right - i see the point of view of asking a guy out yourself but i really would like him to ask me out - i dont know why - but it fits me better.

The thing is i have dated for 35 years - and there is always that chance.

ALWAYS - not to mention i look 25 years old myself - thats the other thing , i dont think he knows my age.

i always get carded - always get shocked looks when i say i am 35 - everyone always freaks outt - the thing about him leaving doesnt bother me - look at these boards for instance - there is always a chance of one person leaving the relationship for some reason or another. again look at the breaking up posts on this web site alone.

i am so nervous around him , i swear i act like an idiot - today a co-worker said " act your age" after a silly laugh fest with him. He is only working in our office this week - so after Friday , if he doesnt ask me out - i think i will ask him out.

God it feels so weird - he acts mature - more than me - geez i act like a crazy women around him - but 9 years!!!!

geez

Thanks you guys so much - she's 2 smart - thank you

we will see , if he asks me out ,now i will def go - plus god he is so handsome!!!

i will let u know! fingers crossed!

Okay - simple story - I like him , he likes me ( well. i think)

anyway we flirt allot , we both are single , one big problem , i feel.

He's 9 , yes NINE years younger than me. I am 35 - he is 26.

any thoughts? I like him allot , but maybe it would never work because of our age difference? what do you all think?

change your phone number!

its day 12 today

and i am outright BLUE!

why hasnt he called me? why?

i am very down today.

I hate this - NC thing. I mean he is prob jumping for joy - i am miserable.

why hasnt he called me?

mikey - i am on day 12 of NC.

Its the friggin worst.

I feel like he and I are just playin games to see who lets go of their pride first.

Wait - on second thought - he broke up w/ me.

So maybe its just over.

anyway - I know how you feel about contacting them.

Stay strong - dont do it.

its day 11 nc/moving on

I am beginning to think NC doesnt even do anything but give my dumper happiness and me grief.

its just horrible.

Nope didnt go - and I thank GOD!!!

feeling good about my decision not going or telling my employer anything.

The cat is still in the bag!

I swear , if he tells them i will be so mad.

BTW- its day 10 nc/moving on .....

I understand your point RC , but i just cant face him yet.

I amhere at work now - but i told my new boss , I mean , I ASKED him if it would be allright if i skip out on the meeting to take my mom to the doctors.

He was totally fine , he said oh yeah dont worry this meeting isnt anything- its cool.

So i feel okay about it.

I cant believe its 10 days no contact. and this weekend will be 1 month broken up.

its day 10 nc/moving

i am lieing to day to my new boss so i wont have to see him.

Its just to early - if i see him i would be a million steps backwards.

I realize i may have to see him so i am preparing myself for that situation , but for today - I am hiding.

the thing is - yes in like a month i see being able to handle it.

But not right now.

I just dont want to go.

Its not crucial i am there at the meeting anyway.

I am seriously considering coming up with a lie.

My mother said to call them in the morning and say i have to take her to her doctors appt. emergency type situation.

They would understand - they are very laid back - cool.

I just cant see my ex right now.

It would seriously affect me negativily - i cant do it.

and i am doing so good in dealing with the loss of self esteem , everything.

Like I said , i just need more time .

I amseriously considering lieing to get out of it.

i might throw my laptop accross the table and hit him.

Not professional.

(I am kidding)

well... no of course i am kidding!

But i am serious i cant go.

i cant go - he will be in the meeting - i cant go

If anyone could please give me advice !

Its day 9 of NC - tomorrow will be day 10.

I just left work and my boss said we will be having a meeting at my ex's workplace!

Help - I dont want to go!!!

Should I come clean with my new boss and tell him - he doesnt know we were together - I just dont want to come off as a problem. I really like this job!

Or do i come up with a personnel excuse - like should I lie and say oh I have to do something.

But i am expected to be in this meeting. I just cant go and face him right now.

Please help - what should I do??

Please i am having a panic attack now.

So my ex just called my new boss ( a client of his , my ex reccomended me for this job , BUT they DO NOT know he was my boyfriend)

anyway - I am sitting here and i can hear my new boss phone ring -" Oh Hey (insert human wrecking ball name) whats up, then he says Oh yeah we hired her , she is perfect. She is our new glue here. "

Why is he checking up on me?

Also my phone rang private this morning , i didnt answer they didnt leave a message.Maybe him , dont know. whatever.

Its still Day 9 NC/ MOving on

Just felt good to hear my new boss say all those nice things to him about me.

day 9 today

silence...

day 8 of nc/moving on

wish i could just fall asleep early tonight.

Dear glorious me ,

Its true , i liked this one , but its also true the men keep getting better and better in your life.

Stand up to your bullies , stand up to them!

also its okay to be sad right now.

Just dont let it ruin your good looks!

i love you,

me

Dear Me,

You still have a chance. A chance to realize all your dreams. Go out there and make them happen. Dont give up on yourself. I love you with all my heart.

me

how old are you ?

how old is he?

Yep day 7 NC /moving on.

Feet are sore from dancing all night with my girlfriends.

Woke up this morning - well sad yes - but okay.

its 3 weeks break up now.

Thank you RC , for checking up on me!! I am going to vegas myself soon.!

hows the weather?

its day 6 of nc/moving on again.

and i am already tired of all my girlfriends and late nights with bottles of wine.

Just wanna move on.

enough already.

i realize you arent gonna call.