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yes - you are right - i see the point of view of asking a guy out yourself but i really would like him to ask me out - i dont know why - but it fits me better.
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The thing is i have dated for 35 years - and there is always that chance. ALWAYS - not to mention i look 25 years old myself - thats the other thing , i dont think he knows my age. i always get carded - always get shocked looks when i say i am 35 - everyone always freaks outt - the thing about him leaving doesnt bother me - look at these boards for instance - there is always a chance of one person leaving the relationship for some reason or another. again look at the breaking up posts on this web site alone.
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i am so nervous around him , i swear i act like an idiot - today a co-worker said " act your age" after a silly laugh fest with him. He is only working in our office this week - so after Friday , if he doesnt ask me out - i think i will ask him out. God it feels so weird - he acts mature - more than me - geez i act like a crazy women around him - but 9 years!!!! geez
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Thanks you guys so much - she's 2 smart - thank you we will see , if he asks me out ,now i will def go - plus god he is so handsome!!! i will let u know! fingers crossed!
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Okay - simple story - I like him , he likes me ( well. i think) anyway we flirt allot , we both are single , one big problem , i feel. He's 9 , yes NINE years younger than me. I am 35 - he is 26. any thoughts? I like him allot , but maybe it would never work because of our age difference? what do you all think?
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Ex attempted contact several times in a week
Replaceme replied to fifregister's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
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its day 12 today and i am outright BLUE! why hasnt he called me? why? i am very down today. I hate this - NC thing. I mean he is prob jumping for joy - i am miserable. why hasnt he called me?
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mikey - i am on day 12 of NC. Its the friggin worst. I feel like he and I are just playin games to see who lets go of their pride first. Wait - on second thought - he broke up w/ me. So maybe its just over. anyway - I know how you feel about contacting them. Stay strong - dont do it.
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its day 11 nc/moving on
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I am beginning to think NC doesnt even do anything but give my dumper happiness and me grief. its just horrible.
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Nope didnt go - and I thank GOD!!! feeling good about my decision not going or telling my employer anything. The cat is still in the bag! I swear , if he tells them i will be so mad. BTW- its day 10 nc/moving on .....
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I understand your point RC , but i just cant face him yet. I amhere at work now - but i told my new boss , I mean , I ASKED him if it would be allright if i skip out on the meeting to take my mom to the doctors. He was totally fine , he said oh yeah dont worry this meeting isnt anything- its cool. So i feel okay about it. I cant believe its 10 days no contact. and this weekend will be 1 month broken up.
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its day 10 nc/moving i am lieing to day to my new boss so i wont have to see him. Its just to early - if i see him i would be a million steps backwards. I realize i may have to see him so i am preparing myself for that situation , but for today - I am hiding.
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the thing is - yes in like a month i see being able to handle it. But not right now. I just dont want to go. Its not crucial i am there at the meeting anyway. I am seriously considering coming up with a lie. My mother said to call them in the morning and say i have to take her to her doctors appt. emergency type situation. They would understand - they are very laid back - cool. I just cant see my ex right now. It would seriously affect me negativily - i cant do it. and i am doing so good in dealing with the loss of self esteem , everything. Like I said , i just need more time . I amseriously considering lieing to get out of it.
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i might throw my laptop accross the table and hit him. Not professional. (I am kidding) well... no of course i am kidding! But i am serious i cant go.
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i cant go - he will be in the meeting - i cant go
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If anyone could please give me advice ! Its day 9 of NC - tomorrow will be day 10. I just left work and my boss said we will be having a meeting at my ex's workplace! Help - I dont want to go!!! Should I come clean with my new boss and tell him - he doesnt know we were together - I just dont want to come off as a problem. I really like this job! Or do i come up with a personnel excuse - like should I lie and say oh I have to do something. But i am expected to be in this meeting. I just cant go and face him right now. Please help - what should I do?? Please i am having a panic attack now.
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So my ex just called my new boss ( a client of his , my ex reccomended me for this job , BUT they DO NOT know he was my boyfriend) anyway - I am sitting here and i can hear my new boss phone ring -" Oh Hey (insert human wrecking ball name) whats up, then he says Oh yeah we hired her , she is perfect. She is our new glue here. " Why is he checking up on me? Also my phone rang private this morning , i didnt answer they didnt leave a message.Maybe him , dont know. whatever. Its still Day 9 NC/ MOving on Just felt good to hear my new boss say all those nice things to him about me.
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day 9 today silence...
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day 8 of nc/moving on wish i could just fall asleep early tonight.
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Dear glorious me , Its true , i liked this one , but its also true the men keep getting better and better in your life. Stand up to your bullies , stand up to them! also its okay to be sad right now. Just dont let it ruin your good looks! i love you, me
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Dear Me, You still have a chance. A chance to realize all your dreams. Go out there and make them happen. Dont give up on yourself. I love you with all my heart. me
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Can anyone help a confused gay guy?
Replaceme replied to Confusedgayguy's topic in Breaking Up Advice
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Yep day 7 NC /moving on. Feet are sore from dancing all night with my girlfriends. Woke up this morning - well sad yes - but okay. its 3 weeks break up now. Thank you RC , for checking up on me!! I am going to vegas myself soon.! hows the weather?
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its day 6 of nc/moving on again. and i am already tired of all my girlfriends and late nights with bottles of wine. Just wanna move on. enough already. i realize you arent gonna call.