My problem is that my hobby is working. I've been going to school and working nights and weekends since high school. I will be starting a normal work schedule in September, but I don't know what to do for a hobby... I like work. I like going out with people from work after work. In my spare time I like picking up extra shifts at my waitressing job.
I am not good at sports and honestly don't enjoy them... so joining a sports team or whatever for fun really doesn't appeal to me at all. I like reading and writing but I've taken some writing classes for fun and have been so different from the people in them... I didn't seem to fit in with them. I'm an odd girl, I know this. I hear the phrases "you're silly", "you're funny," and "you're a little weird, but i love you" just about every day.
Do you look desperate if you ask out a guy? I like a guy at work. He is only 20, but turns 21 in a few weeks and i told him that my friends and i would take him out for his 21st birthday... he and i have never hung out before but he agreed. Do you think there's a way to make this turn into something? I don't know where you find interesting men. Most of my friends are in relationships so when we go out they aren't looking for men. So,aside from going out alone, whihc seems maybe unsafe? I have no clue!!! I bet I could talk to the next 100 men I meet and not one would ask me for my phone number. Why is this??? I'm not down on myself... I'm actually quite happy with myself, but experience has taught me that even if I can have fun tlaking to a guy for a long time, he never asks for my number.
