Dude

OK, OK, I know I shouldn't have snooped but I'm human! I don't think I'm usually the jealous/snooping type but I just decided to this morning! If I made my mind up on how the relationship feels I would say she defo didn't BUT her behaviour that night was weird anyway & I had a strong gut feeling about it even before I saw the text message. So I'm suspecting it was a drunken thing but that's soooo dumpable in my book! She had the text message in her saved items folder so it seems to be that it meant something to her so she wanted to keep it which hurts even more. It'll be tough if she says she didn't cheat and has some kind of excuse for the text message....Such as they had had a fling before we got together and they were just talking about it or he was harassing her or something!!! I'd love to think there's an honest reason why she have it but I can't think of too many at the moment. I hate this kinda thing especially, I'm sure she doesn't have it in her but I guess doen't everyone? Think I should just confront her about the the guy, say that she's 'going red' and ask her i anything happened that night? Then if needs be bring up the text. Ignorance is bliss but unfortunately I don't think I can live without knowing the truth (ad even then if I'll believe it) SUCKS * * * ](*,)

Hi All I thought I trusted my girlfriend 100% until today! Let me know what you all think of this please......... Firstly to start of my story I'll rewind a month back, my g/f is out on a work night out. Usually she'll text me a few times etc but she didn't at all this night. She finally sent me a 'Miss u, crazy about u' text at 3.15am or so. I just had a really strong bad feeling about the whole thing and didn't sleep right but didn't confront her about it. She said she had a great night, nothing out of the ordinary so I brushed it off. Anyway, to this morning: I did the silly thing to read her phone text messages when she was in the shower and read the following which she still had: 'I never forget it babe. Wish I was in bed with you now x' from a work colleague of hers who's going away party it was that night mentioned above....I looked at the date and it was sent that same night at 2.45 am!! Ok, classic case of ignorance is bliss before I read the text messages but a)U think she defo cheated that night? b)How do I confront her about it (prefer not to mention the whole phone snooping thing) as I need to know Advice greatly appreciated dude