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thanks, and i'm okay just really sad . it's hard to let this go.i really cared for this man. how can he just walk away like that,without a word ? he is such a coward to leave me in limbo this way.why can't he just say it's over.i know all men aren't this way,but why are a lot of them so confused as to what they want? i wish this was just a bad headache and all i have to do is take some medicine to feel better, but this is my heart that is aching , how do i heal this? love is suppose to make you feel wonderful inside, instead it feels like crap to me.

he's doing it again to me,i have not heard from him in almost two weeks now. i decided not to call him during that time, but i caved in tonight and allowed my fingers to dial his number](*,) .he was on the phone talking to his mom,when i had called, said he would call back.no call yet, that was over 45 minutes ago. i was trying to go no contact,but i have let myself down once again,cause i keep getting sucked back into him all over again.i give up on this love thing, it's just not for me. this thing is breaking my heart so badly i just want to hear him say he doesn't want us again,so i can find closure. i'm just gonna get myself drunk

update for those who responded, and thanks so much for all your comments. i was just about to give up on him, when suddenly out of the blue sky he called me about two weeks ago,his phone is back on again.he came over to visit me, we talked and things have become much better,communication is so important in any relationship.he said he has been slack in giving me attention and he promise to do better he saids he doesn't want to give up on us.since then,we've been spending more time together,and also talking on the phone more we spent last saturday together at his place and it was beautiful .we're planning to spend memorial day together, and he seems very excited about that. it's gonna work out for us.

thanks so much for everyone advice, tigris your right i need to sit down and have a good long talk with him, i was wondering if what he needed was a little guidance. i do have strong feelings for him and i know this can work for us. he just has to put more effort if he want this to work.i told him that we can end it, if that's what he wanted, but he doesn't want it to end with us. maybe he's just under alot of stress right now with work.

hey, to answer your question tigris, I'm 40 and he's 28..

yes, i told him, i feel we don't have nothing together if we aren't spending time with one another. he looked shocked when i told him that, as if a saddness came on his face. he can be stubborn as well, it's like he does what he wants to do,and when he wants. but like i said he seems to have feelings for me. i know he las felings for me.

hi, i'm new here and i need someone advice on this matter that i have.my boyfriend won't spend time with me? i don't even know if i should call him my boyfriend. he's always busy working,if he's not working he's sleeping.which i'm glad he's a hardworking man. i know people gotta work to make a living and all, but can't he just take some time to call or come by to see me. i don't get to see him very much, but when i do see him, he tells me how much he misses me. if he misses me so much, then why does it takes so long for me to see or hear from him . i just don't understand that. we've been together now for over six months and i just angry that i can't see him more. when we are together he gives me all the attention i want ,he's very loving with me.but once he leaves me, i get so sad because i know it will be like weeks before i see him again. i have ask him how he feels about me, he seems like he loves me, but he seems like he is afraid to tell me. he is a shy person, i don't know if that has anything to do with it. i really care for this man, i think he is a wonderful person, but i also think he has some serious issue going on with him. what's bothering me is that we don't spend time togehter, and then on top of all of this, his cell phone got turn off please give me some advice