Monty

Thanks for your replies. I had a feeling I was doing the right thing but I guess I just needed to hear it from someone else. I could see his point if I had started dating her or something but we're only good friends. Thanks again.

I've got a problem I could use some advice on. A few months ago two of my friends who were dating have broken up. It wasn't a mutual decision, she dumped him. I have known him much longer but consider both of them to be among my best friends. Recently however he has started giving my trouble about my maintaining my friendship with her. He says that since I've known him longer and probably wouldn't have become as good friends with her if they hadn't been dating that I should stop talking to her. He even went so far as giving me an ultimatum saying that if I don't stop talking and hanging out with her to not bother talking to him again. I pretty much replied to that saying that no one is going to make me choose between my friends, this was his decision and that I hope he reconsiders and didn't really mean it and hung up the phone. I don't take well to people telling me what to do and can be very stubborn about it sometimes. What would you do in my place? Am I wrong in wanting to maintain my friendship with them both? Thanks for any insight.