synthetik0826

yeah, thanks for the respoces. Well, more went wrong tonight, so i went over there and got * * * * *ed out, was told that I never want to be seen by him again, ever, and that i'm a psychotic * * * * *, and so on, n just got slapped around a bit, but I don't know. I know I've always been told just to let em go and he'll realize... well i did that not thinkin it would work but it did... there was this thing where i was allowed no contact with him for a month, he wanted nothing to do with me, but then HE broke down after a WEEK! and everything became wonderful, i was treated like a princess, heh, but didn't last long, we're back to this, and worse than ever, but yeah I'm being told to do it again and he will realize again, but I don't think that that can happen a second time...?

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months, with ups and downs, and a pretty big fallout not too lang ago. Now we are back to problems. What it all basically comes down to is that "I cause him too much stress". I need anyone (especially guys') advice on this one. I need to know some ways to not make him feel stress from me, and ways for me to be less stressful towards him. To give you a little bit of background: I admit that I can be, well, am usually, very jealous- that makes a big problem here, and I know that- I want to get over that. Going along with the above, I do seem to start things over nothing (I guess I just want to "make sure" too much. I tend to freak out over little things, and kind of over-react Well, most of these go together, that I act too protective and etc, I would appreciate greatfully anyones's advice/help on how I can become a better girlfriend and how I can work on these things- Not to put stress on him. I don't want this to end our relationship as he is saying it has.