nicorette

great! thanks for sharing your story because it makes us know that its never a lost cause!

hello. i was just reading this site it has helped me a lot. now i was wondering if any kind people out there could help me out with my situation!

okay me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up 10 days ago. the first week pretty much i was begging him back and whatnot, then i came accross this site and realized it was the wrong thing for me to do!

he has came over a couple times within 10 days to make sure im okay, but the reason we broke up was because he said he needed space (were both graduating, under a lot of stress, aren't sure of what we'd like to do after graduation and whatnot) so anyhow he was supposed to come over last night (to just hang out as friends) yet he said he couldnt cos he had to go help out his grandma. instead of me getting angry im like okay, sure. and hes like well wait im relaly sorry, iim lik eno its fine im going to go to teh movies wtih someone else then it doesnt matter! hes like well who? im like i dunno ill call ppl, but i should probably go. hes liek wait! well im so sorry im liek its fine okay dont worry. and then im like im gonna go though, bye. hes like wait! ill call you tomororw im liek okay...bye. hes like wait i love you im like okay love you(i probably shoudlnt have said that) and hes liek bye baby im liek bye.

i think nc was starting to work. i know it wasnt complete nc, but the reason i answered the phone was because i thought we were hanging out today. the thing is, were going to grad together in a few weeks. i really want him back. but he gets off work at 6:30 so i think im not gonna answer his calls. i honestly think waht id id on the phone worked..because he was all liek wondering why i wasnt sayin how cute he is or how much i love him and crying and he was probably wondering why i didnt give a * * * * that he couldnt hang out. of course i cared, i just acted like i didnt. this site has honestly inspired me. iknow it wasnt full nc but do you think at least it kinda made him clue in at all? i have to continue doing it, i know that. its just he calls me like everyday. when we broke up he said we could get back together, he just wasnt sure he just needed space. and i knwo no other girl is involved in this. and i know its true that he acutalyl does need space because i had a huge talk with his mom right after we broke up and she told me. advice anyone?! thanks!!!