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Yeah recently, but not for any long period. I was nervous, for the first time in my life(apart from the first time). Im a pretty confident person but after someone tels you you have a small penis, are * * * * in bed and that their ex was far better looking than you, you tend to feel a little deflated....even if it is said in spite and not necessarily true. I always thouht i was about average in that dept, until recently. There ar some lines one shouldnt cross especially in a serious and meaningful relationship, even if things are going wrong. Its funny cos her ex used to do the same as yrs...strange she didnt learn from it. ive never said anyhting like that to a woman, even in a breakup.........its deeply insulting and offensive and im aware how sensitive women are about it. For what its worth, not all us guys love big breasts and while you may not have all the curves you wish for, a slender woman is extremely elegant. Infact until the last few decades it wwas widely considered amongst the aristrocracy of europe that owman of good blood, culture etc, were on the smaller side of things. You could not (if you were nobility) go back to your family with a big breasted woamn without eyebrows being raised. (certainly it was considered less favourbale than slender) A woman with a slender figure was always considred to be of great elegance and sophistication.(no slight on those bigger breasted girls meant ) So it just goes to show how trends change.

yeah cos i alwys thought i was about normal and then reading the wildly varying reports on the net, im none the wiser. So it was best to ask women anonymously i thought. Actually ive just checked and i was wrong it seems,,,,im actually about 4.5 girth..........which according to the data is still too thin. Its all a bit of a nightmare. Im not bothered if im not big, i just want to think that a girl will consider me 'small'. Avergae is ok with me. Can a girl get sufficient pleasure from what ive got.....penetration wise..........or is it always going to be 'lacking'.........?

hmmmmm thats cool..........im in my early 20's so unlikely to do much more growing. Im surprised that my girth is enough...its certainly doesnt look very thick.........maybe its jsut my perception of it..........thank god for that. The problems started when my ex made very unpleasant remarks about its size and then i started getting very neurotic........nice girl

k.....first off i need to ask this and would greatly appreciate an honest answer, rather than a 'kind' or 'polite'one. I measure up at about 4.75 inches long and i really need to know if that is considered 'small' by women. I know its baout how you use it etc etc, but when a new partner sees it for the first time, is she likely to think "uh oh.....this is pretty small". Its kind of driving me nuts. Do i need to do that little bit extra, based on the fact im only that size....or is it enough to satisfy a woman in penetration terms. The girth is about 3.75 inches. Im not sure if im avergae or small......may not matter to some people but id like to know what girls really think. thx in advance

the thing is im not sure how good it really is............i havent had anything to compare it to. It just seems good. But thats because i havent had a man who is 'normal' or large size. You cant deny that 4 inches is a little bit on the small side and it makes me wonder if he can ever give me what a bigger man can.at least in pure sexual satisfaction. Is it possible for a man his siz e to please a woman in the way that a bigger man can? (penetration - wise i mean). Also i wouldnt leave him because of it..........im just curious. Thats all.

i see your point. Ill try to stop wondering about it then. There are good aspects to it all. Oral is easier and i guess anal would be, though we havent gone there yet. Maybe im just being daft

i would never leave him just because he is small. I just wonder whether im being fulfilled as much as i could be. I mean i havent had anyone else and so what i think is good may only be average, if u know what i mean. Is it really possible for penetrative sex to be as good with a man of 4 inches as with someone bigger, no matter the effort put in?? He asks me if i think he's big enough and im not even sure what to say. Do i lie?

Hi, im not very experinced with men so i need some advice. My present boyfriend is the issue. He is 4 inches long erect(maybe a little over) and 3.5 inches wide. IS that considered tiny, small, medium etc? The sex is good, but i have nothing to really compare it with. Would you gals be satisfied with that? Or what you consider that inadequate, no matter how hard he tried and either 'fake' happiness or leave him?!? I dont really know what to do or think. I mean he uses it well, but surely there must be limits to what he can do with it, as ive heard that other men are bigger. Please give me an honest answer cos its important that i know what im dealing with. What would you do, say or thinkin this situation? thanks