First of all let me say that I been in almost 3 years relationship now and have warn him right from the beginning when we first g/f and b/f that I wouldn't tolerate cheating, nor lying, or any type of mistreatment and if so I would be gone right away, no counseling, no therapy, no forgiveness, NADA (spanish word for "nothing"). Yes I do trust him and currently I'm living with him for about 6 months now, but lately for the past 3 months I notice him with boxes of heart shaped chocolates and a perfume, but it makes no sense cuz it's not valentines nor anybody's b-day, it's not a special occasion. I did questioned but he informs that it's for a very special old lady from work, a friendly one, says that she's about 78 years old and that she's nice, they're friends. Now I'm not a jealous type girl nor overract nor suspect to much of people, but I clearly stated that I believe his words, I believe what he was saying, but if I find out it's not true, that's he's going behind my back, or is up to no good, then I'm gone for good, no forgiveness. Yes, he's my first relation and I do love him, but I'm not going to stay with one who cannot commit or goes behind my back. That was the second time I made it clearly, I don't think he needs no explation. Like I say I do trust him, but isn't that kinda weird, heart shape chocolate, perfume, and stuff for an old lady. I told him to bring her in, I would like to meet him, he say she's too fraile and that she has lots of grandchildren to take care of. What do you think people?? Srry, gotta go, but I'll be here tomorrow.
