well its not a big serious trust problem ... its kinda hard 2 explain ... but i'll try ... in the past shes had her ex bf's tell her they love her so they could make her do thigns she didnt want 2 do ... im pretty sure u know what i mean .. and they would cheat on her .. a couple of months ago her high school crush calls her and tells her he loves her ... she says shes taken .. he gets pissed and calls her mean names .. now yesterday ... she tells me her friend called her and says he loves her ... and then she tells me shes slept with him in the past long before she knew me (i have my own insecurities about this but we'll get to those later lol) ... she loves me dearly and believes me when i say that i love her .. but its just sometimes she doubts herself ... dunno if i made it clearer or more confusing lol .. thanx for the advice i appreciate it ... and i will continue supporting her and being there 4 her as i always have been and always will be ... if anyone can think of any advice i'ed like 2 hear it thanx