Well this is my first post and I need advice. A year and half ago I moved out of the apartment that I shared with my now ex-fi. While we lived together he refused to work and I paid for everything. I eventually went bankrupt and left him. Which was the best decision I have made in my life so far.
So fast-forward to now. I am now dating someone new who is in one word, perfect. I know that I have a future with him. A couple of weeks ago we talked about moving in together. My first problem is that I am somewhat gun-shy about living together after my last experience. Any advice on getting past these jitters?
My second concern is that I have yet to be completely honest with him about my financial past. Not that I was lying to him, but I just haven't initiated that conversation yet as it seemed irrelevant until now. My question is would someone's financial past be a dealbreaker for you, and how should I handle talking to him about this?
Thank you in advance for any help and advice you are able to give.
