mrwrong24

The 50 minute phone call was work related by the way.. I just dragged it on for as long as I could until the phone stuck to my ear requiring a crow bar to remove it!

* * *??? Ok well I didn't end up going to the movie by myself because my car stuffed up and needs to be fixed. She asked me if I went and I told her no because my car stuffed up. "That's no good, oh well we'll have to go see it after Xmas" what the hell? She also asked if I'm up for drinks on Friday during our 50 minute phone call at work!

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Either someone needs to tell me to wake up and smell the coffee or tell me what to do next!! Chemistry can't be one way, can it?

If you feel a spark, does it mean only you feel that spark, if you melt when you look into someone eyes is it only you who is melting? If you're dying to kiss someone is that a one way feeling? If you wake up in the morning and think that person is beside you, do they do the same? basically, when should you call it a quits?

If anyone out there us paing attention. Should I keep trying or am I wasting my time???? I really like her and don't want to give up so easy? Am I just going to make myself more depressed than I already am??

Still, I can't help feeling. Boring, ugly (that's not true) and just no fun. She probably wasn't my type anyway and it probably would never have worked.

There is the posability that She really was busy and just wasn't up to it (then why didn't she say another time) or, she's as nervous about the whole thing as I But the most likely thing is that's she's only invited me out all those times because she thinks I'm a good friend.. Doesn't make me feel any better but oh well, IT'S HER LOSS!

One of my 'female' friends at work said I should give it another go, but I'm inclined to accept defeat and move on, no use flogging a dead horse! I've kinda of decided, maybe, maybe one more chance, if she asks me out I will go out but I'm not making anymore moves unless I know for sure she wants me to, but from what I've gathered she just see's me as a loly friend.. Oh well, it obviously wasn't meant to be.

Ok, she just wants to be friends or I stuffed up somewhere Well, she seems interested in going to the movie with me yesterday Today at about 3 I asked "So ya coming tonight" she said "to what" Instantly I though "If you don't know what I'm talking about you're not interested" I said "The movie" she asked what time it was on I told her and she said I've got too much work to do 5:45 isn't enough time, I said it's on at 9:10 too she said she probably wouldn't be out of work by then either. She said to let her know if it's any good and she will go see it, she didn't say maybe another time etc etc. So, F%^K her.

Ok, interesting thread, well I feel ready, I was over her before we broke up and I can assure you, the problems with that relationship can't be carried forward. Without giving too much away, let's just say I couldn't keep up and began to feel like an object rather than a person!

When I say 'broke' up I mean 'broke' up as in nobody got dumped, we decided it wasn't going to work and called it a quits, but I was somewhat influenced by the fact that 1 I wasn't happy and 2 I went out and had fun with someone I've liked for ages. Basically I realised I wasn't happy, it's not going to work, I can do better and find someone I click with rather than just being with someone for the hell of it.

I also feel somewhat guily because I broke up with my gf only 3 weeks ago. I'm not sure what she thinks of that which is making it harder

I agree, I need to do it in person but geezuz, when ever I'm around her I can't even string a sentance together and I loose my sense of balance.. I've tried the old "turn your nervousness into happiness" easier said than done. Ok.. I need her to come over to my building so I can show her a procedure for whilst I'm on leave.. perfect! Anyone know of a non alcoholic confidence booster? lol

wait, hrm, I eaither shave or clean my car, I shoudn't really do both, I'll shave and remove all the trash from my car but I won't clean it, I don't want to look like I've gone to too much trouble, or do I? A dose of air freshener in the car should do it. This is weird for me because I've been in two relationships before but I've never been on a date!

In regards to my comment that she said that would probably be good, those weren't her exact words but she bassically said Cool.. Sh1t, I need to go clean my car!! A shave wouldn't hurt either!!

Ok, I told her she should come to the movie with me, she said that would probably be good. Now I'm thinking she's interested in doing something with me but I can't talk to her at a movie. Geez, I wish I wasn't so nervous around her at work and had to send emails, for some bizare reason I get nervous near her at work but I'm fine if we go out. STUPID How's this? I'm sort of thinking, as much as I'd love to see King Kong I'm not sure I could sit still for 3 hours on a Friday night, plus I'd rather we could actually talk rather than looking at a big screen, and I'll be able to download it in a few weeks anyway lol. If you're up to it we could instead go for drinks (minus the BRC cronies whom talk about work) or I know a great Pizza shop in Shepp, you did say you like Pizza, you're not a vegetarian or lactose intolerant are you?.. Or, you could think of something. But If I've got your hopes up really high about seeing a 7.5 meter monkey smashing cars we can still do that. Let me know... Feedback is much appreciated.

Good point..

I won't beg, I'll give her two chance after that, no more and then she can beg me!

Ok, thanks guys, I'll just bite the bullet, if she says know I can insist if she still says no, too bad for you, I'll move on to someone else!

Oh, almost forgot the next line. By the way, you're driving!

Geez now I'm rehersing, all I need now is a mirror I've been thinking (yes I do that from time to time) Since you obviously want to see King Kong you should come with me on Friday, you're noting doing anything are you? If so, I'm sure you can change you plans to suit me! I won't take no for an answer, or maybe or... whatever.