truckguy

thanks for the thoughts. I know I try to solve her problems, it's a difficult habit to break. "Calling her out" will only bring out the "fine, leave" then the slamming of the door and crying from the other side. I don't want that. If I disagree with her on something, she thinks I don't support her. I think she overuses the term "support", and I have told her so. My idea of support and her's is different and thats how it stands. *sigh* wish this marriage stuff was easy....

hello. I just don't know what to do anymore. My wife is the love of my life and I try to do whatever it takes given the circumstances. She is extremely stressed at work, overloaded, and her favorite dog in all the world has cancer. Her emotional state is anger at the drop of a hat. She even apologized the other day for snapping. She won't admit the stress is getting to her and if I even hint at it she throws the "you don't support me" argument at me...suggest therapy??? are you kidding???? Just this evening we were talking about something the neighbor does and I disagreed with her. Holy crap you thought I had murdered one of her other dogs. She absolutely went off on me. Berated me up and down saying I constantly make her angry and it's all my fault... I don't know why I'm even writing all this to a bunch of strangers... just need to vent I guess and maybe it helps writing it down. just looking for whatever.. How do I continue?