We've been together 21 yrs. / married for 17, have a 7 yr. old son.
Hey, things haven't been great, but I thought we were "content". I just found out my husband was checking out dating sites last night. He says he was "just curious", he's sorry, things haven't been good with us for years, it wasn't like he was looking at porn, I shouldn't take this too seriously. My view: it's worse than porn, it's the first step to infidelity - "looking". I had no idea he actually had thoughts of "looking". I told him he crossed the line, and we need to either fix this or split up.
So, what do you think? Obviously our marriage is in serious trouble. I told him I would consider counseling, but honestly I don't think it's fixable. Not now that he has crossed that line. I've always trusted him and now that's shot.
How freaked out should I be?
