A week ago while I was away on a business trip my husband called me up 2 days in late at night to tell me not to come home, that he didn't love me and was happy being single. Two days before he drove me to the airport and kissed me and hugged me and told me that he loved me and would miss me. You can imagine I was shocked to say the least, we have been married for almost 10 years. I flew home the next day and asked if he was seeing anyone else, he adamently said "NO". " I just want to be on my own, do what I want and answer to no one". The next day he told be that he was having an affair that he had just met her and only slep with her the one time the day before he called me. I have no where to go and I can't afford to live in out place alone so one minute he says I can stay till I find somewhere to go, than he yells at me and tells me to leave that if he is gonna keep living her he wants me out or he will move out and I can stay living here. Than he reconsiders and says "no you stay as long as you need we will not even see each other that much" But he has not even slept home all week he is practicly moved in with this other woman and I can not believe that this is only just a new realationship. I feel like my life is over, I haven't eatin in a week I can't sleep more than a few hours at a time, most of the time I can't stop my self from crying and screaming. I have started taking meds and going to counselling and still I fell empty and ripped apart. I want to move on and have a new like but I don't know how to end this one. HELP
