hey, i have never done this before but really need help
me and my boyfriend broke up now a month ago and its been really hard i think about him all the time and go to work early just in case i can get a glimse of him. i feel really lost because he broke up with me cos he needed space so i felt i had to give it to him for a while but i get a sick feeling in my stomach when i think of him and wish we were back together. he said that i was to emotional which i have always known but it never has been a major issue. i talked to him constantly for the first two weeks but it hurt to much to see him and talk to him in the end cos he just wanted to be friends and i just cannot do that right now. i feel confused because i am not that upset anymore but just feel alone all the time.
do you think there is hope for us, we were going out for 16months and the last 4 had been rocky because, a while ago i felt to young to be with someone forever and confused about what i wanted in a relationship. I think that he never really got over the shock of me saying thoughs things or maybe started to see them too. i dont know after our talk i realised that i didnt want to lose this great guy that has meant so much to me. he was my first really bf and i was his so it made it hard because we didnt know how to be in a serious reationship for a long time and had alot to learn. i see him now and he feels distant and colder towards me. i really want to see him but dont want to push him away. every one has said your young take time to be free but i really miss him as a best friend and lover and i dont think he feels the same. god i wish i could talk to him but everyone seems to think that its best to give him space if thats what he wants.
please if anyone has any advice i am all ears
