Although this maybe should be in the breaking up section, I am putting in in the divorce section. My fiance of 2 years and partner of 8 years are in the (long) process of splitting up. We've made the decision, and I am now trying to find a place, divide up possessions, etc. Its heart wrenching and terribly sad because even after a year of counseling, we can't make it work. We are not sexually compatible, and after a career change, not really interested in the same things anymore. Not only am I grieving the loss of the relationship (and being frustrated because we are still living in same house), I am saddened by the reaction of a couple friends who have 'taken sides', specifically his side. I feel like I am not only losing my partner and best friend, but what I thought would be a support system. I am trying not to put my own expectations on them, but I am pissed, because I would have been there to support them had they been broken up. Basically, it sucks.
