My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a long time and have endured many hardtimes that most relationships would not have lasted through. On occasion he has told me that he wasnt sure if it was working between us (this usually only occurs after he has worked 2-3 doubles in a row and is over tired) I always reassure him that everything is ok and it always turns out ok. On Monday he sent me the most wonderful e-mail saying how much he loves me and how we are meant for each other and he cant imagine life with out me, etc, etc... He asked me if I still want to marry him (and asks all the time). We've talked about having a baby together and agreed that I would stop using birth control so we can (and I stopped.). Today was different. I didn't see him or talk to him yesterday and was very upset about it. I sent him an e-mail letting him know my disappointment. Today he says he's not coming to see me and that he needs "space" and he doesn't think it's working (again). He said that maybe we can try again "in the future." He said he loves me, and I love him. So what do I do. I don't have a choice but to give him space. What am I missing? I want to give him what he wants, but I'm affraid of losing him. So I just sit back and wait for him to come back like he has in the past? My only concern is that he has never asked for a seperation before.
What do I do?
