Guybrush Threepwood

“I really wish I knew how to talk to women.” 😉 thank you for this, you’re right and feel have done the right thing in distancing myself from it.

Thank you

Thank you Catfeeder. Definitely reassured me that I made the right decision in cutting ties rather than getting mixed up with deceit and chaos.

Thank you, definitely makes sense otherwise make an effort to get in contact to explain things near enough straight after the incident.

Thank you. We used to be at school together then never spoke until bumping into each other in a pub. We swapped numbers and went from there. im assuming her partner got my number from her phone, he was alright to be fair about the situation given I didn’t know she was in a relationship and more annoyed with her. Never got to the point for her to explain why she never said she was in a relationship, and I’ll probably never know given I’ve told her that I want to draw a line under it. all SM blocked! Thanks for the advice

Thank you for this, yeah I was quite taken aback with the out of the blue message, certainly seemed random. I’d certainly moved on and I’m with you best to be rid, don’t need to reopen old emotions. i agree, in the back of my mind im thinking is she trying to get back involved somehow? Are her and her partner struggling and she’s thinking of starting back the emotional fulfilment you alluded to? Or if they break up that id be there to pick up the pieces? (No chance).

Hi, I was wondering what people’s thoughts were on below:- I was seeing a girl for a couple of months, nothing serious and didn’t get to anything sexual. One day abruptly she said she wouldn’t be able to contact me anymore as her partner had found some messages between us. Firstly, I was taken aback as there was no inkling she was in a relationship. Her partner got my number and asked what had been going off. Having explained to him that I didn’t know she was in a relationship already otherwise I wouldn’t have started seeing her and that was wouldn’t contact her again now I know, he was alright about things and it was amicable at our last conversation. Heard nothing until today - 9 months later (no not that) when she messaged out of the blue asking if we could chat and put things right/explain the situation. She said she understood if I didn’t want to discuss, but also didn’t want me to tell her partner that she had messaged me (I wouldn’t go running to him). I said I wasn’t mad or one to hold a grudge and wanted to leave things in the past. I left it at this saying I was moving on. Just thought it was strange to get in touch so long after what had happened. Just wondered what people’s thoughts were as to why it has taken 9 months for her to want to explain things.