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Update: he is ending the relationship over this

We have been together 5 years i’m 22 and he’s 26. Says he feels like he’s running out of time and some of his friends have kids by now. I have tried telling him we are both still young and it doesn’t need to be rushed. Our relationship isn’t the best and i just am not ready to have a kid right now.

So I have been planning my sister’s gender reveal for about 2 weeks now. I just found out the gender a few days ago and i’m the only one that knows. This is her first kid and it’s a really special moment for everyone. My boyfriend has been upset since the moment i told him she was pregnant because he wants a kid and mad that I don’t want one right now. So I never even brought up the gender reveal or anything bc I just didn’t want to deal with it. So now he’s telling me he got us movie tickets for the same exact day/time as her gender reveal. And he’s extremely upset because I won’t miss it. I have told him how important this is to me but he just doesn’t care. I told him he could easily just switch the tickets for another day even literally the next day. But he won’t do it. We are having a huge argument over it he’s saying i am choosing her over him etc. Am i in the wrong here?? I really don’t understand why he can’t just change them since the gender reveal can’t be changed. This is like going to end our relationship he will not listen to me. Any advice helps please and thank you.