Dunny

My ex and i had broken up over 4 years ago. She has a new boyfriend and a fourth child. My girlfriend or ex was and is great with my kids as she has met them and spent lots of time with them. I am unsure as to what is going on with my girlfriend and i and she feels the same way. She has a backstory which is her personal details but she has been through a lot in her life and I can understand why and how she can lose trust easily. I don't fault her for anything at all. This is all an underlying issue that my ex likes to create.

We've been together for a few months. She is 32 and I don't know why she contacted my ex. I however was stupid and felt it could go both ways. My ex was causing a wedge by messaging me and telling me my girlfriend is messed in the head (she is the mother of my kids) and I would defend my girlfriend yet my ex would tell her I was talking about her. She said I caused too many problems with contacting her ex and the only way to solve it was if I was out of her life.

I agree with you on somethings yet she technically didn't "get rid" of me as she was here a few days later kissing me and telling me she loved me. Its just odd all around

The issues initially started because she had been not keeping plans and having what felt like flakey reasons so i asked if the relationship meant anything after the 10th time. I have no real reason why she originally contacted my ex but my ex really tried to drive a wedge between us and it worked a bit. Shes said theres still a chance depending on how i am. When i contacted her ex i thought it could go both ways which wad stupid of me and i have accepted and apologized up and down for that. I have taken responsibility for my actions and apologized up and down.

My girlfriend/fiance have been having a bunch of issues and it came to a head Friday. She contacted my ex and asked questions so I went to do the same yet her ex turned around and told her entire family, she said the only way to solve the problem was to get rid of me.....yet she still talks to me every day, texts or calls. Says there's still a chance as long as we are communicating. I try to communicate but she always turns hostile. Today alone i just sent her a message saying "hey im going out for a bit but you can still message me." Her response was "Uhm okay have fun doing whatever" I want to find a way to fix this and show her this is worth it but I'm not sure shes being responsive.