Real01

Thank you, I will!

No divorce, but I wanted to try a trial separation, but because I decided to do what was best for me for a change he is mad and this is how he acts. i tried to reach out to talk about schedules, support and so on. He didn’t speak or reply to me, he even blocked me on social media, which I’m not upset about that, however communication was one of our problems as well.

I am speaking for before I ask him to leave. Giving the reasons as to why I ask him to leave. I know our communication is broken currently. just trying to seek other options as to if I made the wright decision.

Hi, I asked my husband to leave in October due to him not caring, gaslighting and not helping financially. I have a question, is it ok to ask your spouse to help you 50/50, to help with our daughter and extracurricular activities including traveling for games, to and from games, practices, food and other household finances. He tells me he can’t, but he don’t even act like he is concerned that I am drowning, if he supported me more maybe I would not focus so much on finances but how we can figure it out as a partner. When we go places he act like he don’t care ant to be their, he doesn’t talk interact or just act like he wants to be with me. i have told him, and he act like it’s me, but he definitely would say hurtful things to try and trigger me, a lot of gaslighting. Am I wrong to ask for more financial help?

This sounds a lot like my situation. I have carried more of the financial responsibility. But what it came down to was he just wouldn’t do it or care to help me. That was hard for me to accept, I asked him to leave the in October and I haven’t seen him or talked to him. He hasn’t even tried to reach out and that speaks volume. I hope you receive wisdom in your decision.