Cat1203

Hi, he initiated the breakup because he said he loved me but wasn’t in love with me. But I believe it was very one sided for a long time

Yeah this sounds exactly what it was like! Because now all of a sudden, there’s nothing just been ignored and ghosted even when he was the one who said to take it gradual and slow. I don’t think I want to be back with him to be honest I even thought that when we spilt up, but still hurts and I’m not sure why

Hi, Just for a little information me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 4 months. However after one month of breaking up and being in no contact he messaged me to congratulate me. Then from then on he messaged every 2 weeks then he said he wanted to take it slow and gradual and all of a sudden after he went out he ghosted me all my messages, and then deleted me back on social media. I find the ghosting after 4 years to be extremely disrespectful and hurtful especially when he was reaching out to me. He hasn’t blocked me and I havnt blocked him. We have now been no contact for a month, not like we spoke about being in no contact it’s just he ghosted me. This weekend I’ve just been thinking about it and feeling different to how I’ve felt at the start of the breakup im feeling hurt and I feel maybe now after time I’m going through a time of accepting we won’t get back together. I’m not sure any opinions?

I have days of when I’m not doing my nursing full time job. But just feel so down and lost feel close to tears when I’m on my own

A lot of people I have come across on this platform have read my posts about the breakup. But long story short I’m going through a breakup we was together for 4 years it was one-sided for quite a while then he said he fell out of love and we broke up it ended nicely I understood how he felt. i don’t just feel a bit rubbish cause of the breakup, it’s just life just feel rubbish. Every one of my friends ovbs have there own life going on so it’s hard to make plans with them, I just feel all I’m doing is work and then don’t want to do anything else. Just feel a bit lost in life and felt like this as well in the relationship as I think being in your 20’s is quite a whirlwind. Just feel stuck and a bit down and fed up of it. before anyone says see a therapist I already know that and that’s something I’m looking into, I just want some comfort and advice as already feel down and lost and lonely.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m going through a similar thing my ex said he fell out of love with me, how are you getting on now?