My friend introduced me to a guy friend of hers back in October. She told me he is very shy and takes time to open up. We texted for about a week and then he wanted to meet me. I wasn't available to do so but we met early the following week. We both seemed very comfortable, although a little nervous unstandably since it was the first date/meeting in person.
He was definitely shy but opened up enough and could engage but sometimes could not make eye contact. We both laughed and smiled a lot and at one point he just looked at me with prolonged eye contact and smiled, I felt the chemistry and he teased me a few times. He paid even though I insisted we split, but he told me no. He texted me after that he had a great tike meeting and wanted to meet again sometime.
He asked me out again a few days later and our second date took place that weekend. I felt really good after this date as well and we had a lot of fun, and he made me laugh. He did the same thing and looked me in the eyes and held it and smiled. I won't lie I felt in the moment of him more as a friend, but was attracted to his personality.
The time just seemed to pass and I didn't hardly notice anyone else. He paid for this date as well and we stayed until closing. The next day I Thanked him for a good night, that I had a lot of fun and would like to meet again sometime. He told me he had a fun time too and we would plan something.
He texted me the next day and we talked for a bit. Then I asked him out because I didn't want him to feel he was doing all the work planning. He agreed and everything seemed fine until that night. The date was kind of awkward. We went out for drinks after and he talked but seemed disconnected and used the restroom like 3 times over an hour. He would move around and was acting odd.
I asked him if everything was ok because it seemed like he was bothered by something. He told me no, he just drank too much and was reserved. He laughed and told me he just doesn't know what to say and is a quiet person usually. I felt like I was doing all the conversation starters and I felt annoying.
I asked him if he liked doing things with me and he nodded his head yes. I told him he was a nice guy and so different to guy I knew in the past. He seemed to mellow out some after we were there a while and was able to do more talking.
I intiated kissing him when he dropped me off and it was a decent kiss. He wasn't expecting it but went in for it as well. We talked over text the next day and then the day after he told me he thinks he just wants to be my friend. He told me he thinks I am really nice and I didn't do anything wrong and it's something with him.
My friend was mad at him and says he is scared. She is wanting to get us to hang out as a group with others because he said he would hang out with me if i was up for it. This hasn't happened yet and I really don't think it will. I told her I think he met someone else but she told me he has not. He has never been in a long term or serious relationship. He hasnt dated in 4 years. I'm just so annoyed because I really liked him as a person.
I dont make friends very easily and he doesn't either. He has a very small group of people he told me. I just felt like we meshed but I dont know he meant wanting to be friends despite telling both me and my friend so.
