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@Kwothe28 thanks for responding. I just find it strange though after 2months. And, I´m estimating 2 months but could have been way before. I mean, it´s one thing to just meet something but to be in a fully committed relationship already? Also, seeing from the pics, he doesn't look that happy. Anyways, for sure I need to continue to focus on me and continue to level up but a part of me is so angry at him.

@boltnrun I totally understand where you are coming from and for sure what I´m describing is not appealing. Trust me, I had a phase when I hated myself for allowing him to come into my life. I guess all of this is coming from the pain that has turned into anger: From leaving the way he did to now flaunting his new relationship. He´s basically putting salt into the wound.

Thanks, @Wiseman2 for your kind words. He moved in because he was living with his friend and due to his credit ( found out only when he moved in) he wasn't able to afford a place of his own. Also, he lost his job only because it was a temp contract that ended at the same time as our relationship. I will take into account your advice 🙏 out of sight, out of mind right?

Because it´s only been 2 months and the fact that he´s been flashing his new relationship all over social. He would know that I know as half my friends still follow him. Also, I just edited my post lol I definitely don't want him back and yes it´s clearly ego-talking.

So this is my story: To make it short, I dated this guy for about a year. Beginning, he was great and a perfect gentleman! He moved in after a few months with me and my preteen son. At first, everything was great but with time he behaved like a princess and acted like everything was due to him. He was also very insecure and would have outbursts of jealousy for nothing. Also, his financial situation was horrible. I had to help him out a lot. I sometimes felt like he was using me, especially by the end, which I called him out for. I also felt like he was pulling away. I stupidly stayed because I thought we shared a complicity but now I know I was holding on to a lot of resentment as I started to gain a lot of weight and couldn't lose it (crazy how the body responds). We ended up having a big argument (a rare one for us) and he left the next day. He only reached out a few days later to figure out when he can pick up his ***. He acted very cold but even though I was hurt, I responded calmly and packed everything for him, and made sure I wasn't there when he came. For the 2 weeks that followed, he was blowing up my phone for us to meet and talk with the typical I miss you and I love you. He ended up losing me, his job, and staying with his mom at the same time. I chose to move on because a man who behaves like this has no room in my life and decided to not give it a chance so I blocked him. Ever since I´ve been healing and moving on. We broke up during the summer (I know, how common) so I enjoyed myself by going out with my friends and just finding myself again. I also lost all the weight I´ve gained and took care of myself. Really, I was proud of myself because I also never reached out to him nor cared to know what was going on in his life. So overall, I did everything that they said to do during a breakup. But this is the thing: Last week, a close friend of mine shared that he´s been posting on social media with another woman. It´s basically him and her going out to dinner and taking cute pics together. I saw the pics and not to be mean but he looks like *** and I was shocked by his facial expression: the like sucked out of him. I´m not going to talk about the girl bc I don't want to be mean but... And I don´t know why but this doesn´t sit right with me. From my friend´s investigation, they started to date not even 2 months after we broke up and half of my friends still follow him on social. I haven't reacted nor cared to reach out but what´s bothering me is that I feel like he´s using this as a way to get back at me. I´m also wondering if he was monkey-branching before we broke up as it happened pretty fast. I´m just curious to get an opinion on this. Also, apart from continuing to heal and live my life, is there anything I could do to get back at him? (yes, I´m being petty)