AnimeNeRD

We will hang out in our rooms together when we are both home. But this is the first time this has happened. And we have been having MULTIPLE issues for months now. She over exaggerates EVERYTHING. And is a complete drama starter and always trying to involve me even when I tell her to knock it off.

I came home from work today to find my roommate and her dog laying in my bed just relaxing. Now her dog lays in my bed all the time when she is not home probably because he feels lonely or something. When I confronted her I was asking what anyone would ask, "how long have you been in here? What are you doing?". She immediately got defensive saying the "the dogs paws were hurting him earlier and I just wanted to make sure he was doing ok". Even tho I was on the phone with her while I was driving home from work so it means she was in the room for 20 minutes. I am now getting the cold shoulder and silent treatment and excuses saying her stomach is hurting even though she was getting ready to eat dinner. Am I right or wrong for confronting her about this situation? And what do I do about the dog because I have built a very strong connection with him?

I've been dealing with an issue with my roommate for not too long now but I am not sure if I am the bad guy. We both work at the same place and it is a very stressful job for both of us. Unfortunately we both had the misfortune of having a VERY bad day and I happened to yell at her, unintentionally taking my anger out on her. I am now getting the silent treatment and having to deal with the front door slamming back and forth. I feel really bad but this has happened before for several days at a time and every time I apologize I get yelled at and it makes me feel so terrible. But at the same time if she yells at me on a stressful day, I just shove it down and don't bring it up and continue about my day like nothing happened. I love her as a great friend but I'm not sure how else to communicate. What do you guys think?