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Yes, that's what I plan to do, as Andrina suggested before. About following her on Instagram, what do you think would be better? I know a couple of other people from the residence, should I ask to follow all of them at once? My main problem is that I don't know how she will react if I write her out of the blue, and I wouldn't want her to tell more people because I've been hanging around the residence a lot lately and I wouldn't want the situation to become awkward. Maybe if I ask to follow everyone at once it will go more unnoticed, and from there I could start talking to her little by little to meet the two of us alone. Thank you so much for your reply!

My intention was precisely that. I don't like relationships through networks either, and talking through Instagram was an excuse to be able to meet physically. I really like your advice and I think that's what I'm going to try as soon as I see her. The only downside is that when I see her she's never alone, and I'm a little shy about asking her in front of others. Hopefully the others won't mind (after all they are going through the same thing too). Thank you very much for your answer and I will try to put it into practice as soon as possible.

The truth is that I don't really know how to express it hahaha. As I said nothing like this has ever happened to me before and I don't know how it works and how to manage it. But the thing is that I'm a pretty introverted person who always talks to the people he knows and I don't know why he has noticed me. From what my friend has told me there was already someone who tried to hit on her, and she just ignored him. Besides, it seems that she doesn't behave like that with almost anyone, and from what he sees of her he was very surprised about the hug. So I don't know if she does it because she somehow likes me or for some other reason that I don't know, although I'd like to go with the former. Also, thank you for your advice. I am trying to go out more often to see her more, but at the moment we could only coincide on Fridays and Saturdays (when she goes out) and by chance, because of the fact that I don't have any contact with her by social media to talk directly. You say I should give her my contact information rather than wait for her to give me hers? Thank you, really, for your response. Right now I don't know what to do or who to talk to about it, so your response is a comfort to me.

Hello everyone and thank you in advance for your time. This is the first time I've written here, so I'll try to be clear. My situation is as follows: I started college this year, and since it's not near my hometown, I'm living in a community college. A friend of mine is also here, but he is staying in a residence. The other day I went to his dorm, and when I arrived, a girl came up to us and started talking to me. A little later she invited me to play pool and we hit it off very well from the beginning. I should clarify that my experience with women is nil, so I have never been involved in a similar situation. The straw that broke the camel's back was the other day when I was leaving class. She goes to the same university but in another group, and my friend and I were waiting for everyone from his residence to leave. When she saw me she waved at me from afar, ran up to me and hugged me. I have nothing that makes me suspect she is trying to take advantage of me: she barely knows anything about me, and from what she told my friend, she is very reserved about relationships. In addition, every time I see her from afar in the halls, she greets me effusively, even shouting my name. I couldn't say, although it seems a bit hurried to me, that we like each other, but I would like, even if it wasn't asking her out, to at least try to relate more with her, but we hardly ever meet and never alone. I know her Instagram because my friend is in a group with her and others, but I don't know if she'll think it's a little weird that I'm asking to follow her when she didn't give it to me and, I repeat, we've barely spoken since the day we played pool. What would be the right way to deal with this situation? Again, thank you very much for your answers!