I've been single for YEARS by choice, randomly bumped a guy i went to school with at the beginning of this year and got along really well, and started dating.
Its been going really well. He's the most wonderful man and has met my son, and they get on very well.
However, I recently had a revalation - I'm a lesbian.
I've always thought I was bisexual but a number of things have been light bulb moments for me (I won't lie, tiktok has helped me realise this too!)
But how on earth am I going to break this man's heart? He says he's very much in love with me and sees a future with me - I know it's only been 8 months and we don't live together or anything, so in terms of logistics it'll be easy but the last thing I want to do is hurt this lovely man.
Any advice on how I'm going to do this and what I can say to lessen the blow? Pretty sure he won't see this coming, but I have been avoiding him a little over the last week or so just because I don't want to be fake but also have no clue what to do/say 😔
