Hi this is my first post. My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 months. At the very beginning of the relationship he was upfront and disclosed that he has ED (the result of a bike accident when he was a teenager) and needs medication to get things going. Our sex life, whilst infrequent, was still good. About 4 months ago he had a blood test which revealed he has very high cholesterol. He has been working hard to change his diet and lifestyle (he was a smoker at the time) to get his cholesterol down and avoid needing to go on medication. We have not have sex in 4 months. We haven’t really spoken about it in detail but he tells me that he can’t get a prescription for his ED medication whilst his cholesterol is so high as he is at risk of a heart attack. I fully accept this and of course support him in doing what he’s doing. What bothers me is that I have found some ED medication in his medicine bag with a couple of tablets missing. I also saw on his phone (I wasn’t snooping, he let me use his phone and I happened to see his search) that he has searched for porn. I understand everyone looks at porn. That’s not the problem. By why is that ok but he can’t have sex with me?!
Sorry for the long rant