I have a friend who is going on 17, and he always talks about gay topics, and he often questions if friends are gay, and states "gay activities" they should be doing. I don't know how to take it, because I am gay, but not out. He's outgoing, and attractive. He never has had a girlfriend, but I don't think this is that unusual, and he is kind of rude around them. He talks about girls he'd like to meet and so on, but backs out when confronted by them sexually. I have this feeling he is hiding alot. The other night he started discussing some of his issues (family and personal) without being prompted, which makes it even more confusing. Plus the amount of time that seems to consume talk about same sex (male) small talk. Anyway, I have no romantic feelings towards him, but would like to help him out with his emotions or whatever, but keep our friendship. Should I bring up the question as to whether or not he has feelings towards guys or is this normal? What is going on with him? Any advice???
