Stephaniee

I met a guy at work 4 months ago, he seemed shy but always tried to talk with me and we texted as well. But then he started becoming hot and cold sometimes he talks and next day he ignores me completely. Once there was a misunderstanding then he told me that he cares about my opinion and that I influence his mood but the next day he acts as if nothing happened! 

when he texts and I dont respond on the same day, he gets sad and says I am busy. But when we go out as a group, he ignores me

he is inconsistent and i dont understand him 
Do you guys think he doesn’t like me and just trying to be nice?

i do ask others questions as well , i dont do all the talking 

Hello everyone

i am in my mid twenties and I've never been in a relationship. although i try to be presentable but almost always others like my friends. I somehow blend with the background. I  am a little shy when talking to someone i dont know but afterwards i talk more and about various topics. when i start to open up, men pull away. I dont understand why! i am friendly and I give compliments to others, i try to talk in a positive way but i never receive compliments on my looks or get asked on dates. its frustrating knowing that no one finds me good enough to date!

What do you advice me to do?