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Daphne

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  1. Thanks for your feedback, i think you're right; i just need to leave him alone and move on. Do you think I should block him or remove him from socials? It's just so weird to me that someone can spend almost a whole year texting someone almost daily and then suddenly ignore them 🥲 but i guess people have different standards for friendship lol
  2. I was fine with being friends. "sisterzoned" was weird and he said that wasnt what he meant and he didnt have any sisters and has never felt close to another girl like how he did with me and that's what he meant. I honestly didnt feel like he'd be a good boyfriend from the beginning and I've enjoyed our relationship more now that we are friends than when we were dating; it's more relaxed and friendly. We texted everyday. He would send me loooong messages and we talked about everything from current events, to our families, to weird situations with people, or cool stuff we had bought. He only ever ignored me once- so up until october he was always a good friend really. But you're right, now that he has done it again he has shown he isnt a good friend. Do you think removing him as a friend on socials is too extreme?
  3. But that's not just your ex- thats the mother of your children. She's still part of your family whether your gf likes it or not. For the sake of your children (current, existing children right now) I would have a serious conversation with your gf about this being a difficult situation to navigate. Furthermore, I would seriously reconsider your living situation and divorce considering that youre "living together"- it is very confusing and I would think about your kids and how they might feel with all these changes. Your kids, that are alive right now, should be your #1 priority.
  4. Hi! I met a guy on tinder a little less than a year ago. He lives an hour away and doesn't drive (at the time he didn't) so we went only went out on like 3 dates over a few months. We got along amazingly well and basically texted each other every single day from the day we first started talking. I ended up asking him kind of "what we were" etc. and he said I felt more like a sister to him but still wanted to go out. Then he said maybe that his brain was coming up with ways to avoid being coming attached to me because he was leaving for work within a few months and didn't want to do long distance and that saying "sister" was weird and not what he meant. Basically we decided to be friends and kept texting everyday. We stopped hanging out but kept texting about plans and things to do together. I asked him to hang out at the end of summer. He came over and we walked around/went to a mall etc. We stopped texting but kept messaging on snap and ig. Once a day/once every few days. He got really weird and ignored me for 2 weeks. I basically asked him what was up and he was super apologetic and said he was going through some personal stuff and didnt want to tell me. I told him I was there for him and that we were friends and it's ok. He never opened my response to him on insta but we kept talking on snap. We continued talking etc, i traveled overseas and his job ended up getting pushed back. Basically he messaged me like normal and everything and we were sending paragraphs of messages to each-other about different topics etc for the last 3 months. Now, for some weird reason he hasn't opened my message in 3 weeks. I didn't do or say anything different. He was still watching my story on ig and snap. It's not that I like him and want to date him. But i'm just so sad because I really considered him one of my closest friends. Honestly kind of like a guy-best friend. I have a close circle of friends so it just really hurts that he is ignoring me now. Should I block him or remove him as a friend? should i say something to him? Grateful for any advice ❤️ Thank you!
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