thing is she has never in anyway said she does or dosent see potential, the going with the flow was mentioned because of her last long relationship where she also met from the same site she rushed into things and she got hurt she has explained to me that she does not want to do the same mistake and thats why she wants to go slow and with the flow. i would be totally fine with this but its the little things like the distancing that is what got me anxious. i am not oblivious to the truth and i know it does not look good but what if the damage that was caused in the previous relationship has put up a wall we all do it this is why i want to treat her the same way i always do be kind, romantic and make her feel a million dollars and then i will have a heart to heart with her with using the "I" statement and let her speak and listen if she does not feel the same or see anything then thats fine but i would also tell her that then this is the last time we will speak or see each other because its not fair on either of us
Sorry for diverting from the original topic