thank you for all your advise. We did sit down last night and worked some core issues out, there is light at the end of the tunnel I believe. We communicated well, listened to one another and recognised each others points of view. I don't think he's really ever done this before so it is new ground but I am confident that this is the beginning of the next stage of our relationship. I feel that there is equal desire on both parts to make this work however our instinctive reactions are very different which is why we misunderstand each other and argue, we're now taking the time to understand what each others reactions mean, I hope I'm right.
Thanks once again.
