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  1. Its definitely the money. I am working now but it’s not enough to make it on my own
  2. I started a fulltime job about 6 weeks ago . I get home between the hours of 6:00 and sometimes 7:30 He was pissed off that I was putting laundry away and not heating up his dinner. I should have stopped what I was doing . I said we both work why can’t you heat up your dinner . I have a lot of other things to do and he said I don’t know what real work is only he works . I need to make him better dinners . Wow that jerk doesn’t appreciate anything at all as always. I’m *** and he’s important. F… him. He always make me feel like I’m a worthless piece of nothing. I’m so sick of him
  3. They are sick of it . I feel like a hamster in a wheel going nowhere . My sister is confusing me . She’ll tell me to stay for financial reasons. Then I’ll hear from other people that she hates my husband and doesn’t want to influence me in anyway. That she wants this to be my decision. I keep saying why should I stay for the money . Then she says you need to figure this out . it can’t stay this way . Figure out how you can make it work out financially or fix your marriage. We went to counseling in the past . You can see how well that worked out . I can’t stand the constant degrading, the nasty text messages. On the 4th of July he tells me that he wants a divorce via text and now he wants to work it out . Ugh he’s driving me nuts
  4. Yes I do . He started his old hobbie again . Which brought back memories from when he was with his ex . He was saying things to me like she lived around the corner from us when we were first married. He forbid me to go down her street . Now I know why . Also he said that right before my wedding she begged him not to marry me . Why would she do that if they didn’t have anything going on . After I started piecing this together. I started thinking that there’s definitely more times for sure . I never cheated. I talk to my old boyfriend On Facebook. He’s been a really good friend to me through this . Yes he’s asked me to go and visit him with other intentions. I never physically saw him . Anyway I want a confession. I know that I will never get one . My husband wants to work it out . There’s way to much that I can’t even think about rekindling this marriage. I’m broken .
  5. So I’m trying to be more independent. My husband and I have not been getting along for years. He basically told me two years ago that he didn’t love me anymore. That when we were engaged he cheated and this all comes out after I started a life with this man . We have been married for 27 years. Now that I am trying to have my own life . I just got a fulltime job . Have been trying to do things for myself which I never do. He has the nerve to say that I’m crazy he never said this to me . This is one of the reasons why I can not stand this man anymore. He’s a hard worker a good provider but he’s verbally abusive . So I’m afraid that I can’t do this on my own . I don’t want my family to break up . Why am I here still . Why can’t I realize I do deserve better than some man playing mind games . He doesn’t treat me nice either . All my friends keep saying do you want to move forward or move back ??? You can do this . I think they just want to see me happy . Why is this so hard .
  6. We went to a wedding over the weekend and I think he was telling people that I wanted to go on his all guy trip which isn’t true . But I think he was doing this because he wanted to belittle me and he does this all the time to me . So one of his friends point blank asked me if I wanted to go and I said my husband knows that I look forward to getting a break from him for a week. And then he looked at my husband and said oh sure she wants to go . I mean who would want to make their own wife feel terrible about themselves.
  7. We were having problems and he mentioned out of the blue that he visited a lawyer . ( this was two years ago ) basically the lawyer told him that he was screwed . We decided to work things out because we have a child in college. We planned a weekend getaway and he confessed that he wanted to divorce because he was thinking about his old girlfriend now that he is involved with his old hobby.He confessed that she used to go with him all the time and I didn’t know it . And he confessed and said that before that we were married she begged him not to marry me . She lived around the corner from us when we were first married and he didn’t tell me about also forbid me to go down the street that she lived on . It made me question a lot of things. Like what else is he lying about . He really hasn’t been that nice to me either . I am questioning and my intuition is telling that he has been unfaithful through the years . If I try to talk to him about it . he screams at me . Which is also a sign to me . I just want a confession. I think that I deserve that much . But I feel like I will never get one . I just feel like I need one in order to move forward.
  8. He also told me recently that she lived around the corner from us when we were first married. He never told me then but I do remember him telling me to not go down a certain street which was hers . Why would he hide her? Also I think that he kept her around because we separated twice and I also recently found out that he was seeing her . She just so happens to be available every time. She’s been divorced 3x’s already. And he told me he was missing her because he just started dirt biking again and she would go with him back then . Idk something stinks
  9. My husband recently confessed about cheating on me while we were engaged. This happened 27 years ago . If this happened yesterday I would have left the relationship no questions asked . I’m furious and feel like how can someone say that they love you and do this to you .we have two grown children in their early 20’s . I don’t trust him anymore. And I am feeling like he never really got rid of her . Like he always went to her when we had a fight . But I’m not certain. Would you end a marriage of 27 years if you found out your husband cheated while you were engaged? From years ago
  10. He’s a friend. Nothing more
  11. I really don’t know where to begin. I love my best friend. He has always been there for me through some really hard times and I love him dearly. He’s smart he’s funny . he knows me better than I know myself. He’s just a really great person . He doesn’t drink all the time maybe twice a week but when he does he really drinks . I don’t like it and I don’t know how to tell him this . He’s really sensitive too . Also he had an abusive childhood and never went to therapy for it . Maybe why he drinks that way . Idk just want to be a good friend he’s so great to me .
  12. ❤️ Perfect idea Thank you
  13. Thanks that’s such a great idea love this .
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