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thanks for the reply but i already got her number, like i said were fairly good friends. during the summer we'll be living about 300miles apart which is kind of a downer I guess ill have to pick up where i left of next september.

well i better pull something out of the bag cos next week is the last and i probably wont see her for 3-4months

Thanks for the fast reply Yeah i guess i could try a bit harder but like i said sometimes i get good responses and sometimes not so i dont wanna come on too strong.

Hi Im 18 and just about to finish my first year at university. my question relates to a girl that lives in the same house as me on campus. over the last 6 months we have natrually become friends. however i would like this to become more. i cant put my finger on it but i really feel that she would be the perfect girlfriend for me. My problem is that i am fairly reserved and would have problems "jusk asking her out" as many people suggest. i want to make sure that she feels the same way first. sometimes she seems to be very friendly with me and other times she appears pretty uninterested in spending time with me, which has gotten me a little confused During the easter holiday we were planning to go on holiday together but she backed out at the last minute supposedly due to work reasons . I dont mean to sound smug but i think im fairly good looking and do a lot of interesting stuff, sailing/pilots license etc.. however im pretty shy and have never had a proper girlfriend. i would be greatful for any advice you guys can give me on what steps to take i.e. how to find out if she is actually interested in me or not. Thank You