My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. We are constantly in fights that leave me feeling sad, depressed and wanting to take the blame for whatever caused the fight, even if deep down I know I hadn't done anything wrong. Just a few days ago him and I were hanging out at home for the morning before I headed off to work(i should probably add that he's been unemployed for 4 months now). I mentioned to him that I would be leaving a little early to go to work to pick up my paycheck and then go to the bank and do a few other things. In his effort to get me to stay home with him later he offered the idea to do these things the next day which I just could not afford to do given the circumstances. I failed to mention this to him and did not agree/disagree in anyway to his idea. When the time came for me to leave at the same time I had mentioned to him I'd be leaving he got really angry and stated that he thought we had come to an agreement on doing these things the next day, in turn staying home till a later time. When I told him I never agreed to this and argued my point, he took the knife he was using to chop some things up with, threw it at the floor and then came over to me and kicked the wall next to where I was standing. Does this kind of miscommunication deserve that type of anger?
